To say that someone waking off in private will not manifest those desires in publc, is false. All things that grow including emotions/desires, when nurtured have consequences or 'bear fruit'. To deny that is to have no understanding of human emotional dynamics or potential. emotions tend to behave simular to the laws of physics.."a body in motion tends to stay in motion unless acted on by an outside force. Isaac Newton". Ergo, emotions/desires unless acted on by an outside force or emotion, continue to develop to they're natural conclusion. This is not to say that one doesn't have free will, but to say that desires harbored in private, will come out... Regardless, if not sincerly altered by that individual, with help. Everyone has flaws, and there a lot of people in the mental health field, who are truly out to help people..and if you must know i am a group therapist. It just seems to me that renderosity is trying not to participate in the growing tide of child pornograpy on the net, and that's ok by me.