electroglyph, One of my best friends in college was named John Henry. I also think it is one of the names John Wayne was called in one or more of his movies. All that aside, this is a sad day for you - I can not hope to express the huge sadness that you must be feeling now. I can not express nor even hope to know what you must be feeling at this point but I grieve with you. I don't know that that will make you feel any better, but my condolences are genuine for what that is worth. I can only hope that your pain abides over time. sincerely, - TJ