ok the problem: I dont want to get caught up in giving the Fish a Gender I dont want to call the Fish it. I dont want to name it anything other than the Fish. these are the kind of thing I want the reader to be able to relate to regarless of anyother differences thatn the ones already in the story. Fish not human & either swimming against or floating with the current. It is supposed to be relatable to humans tho and give a certain "wisdom of the Fish".