Maybe with the help of the members, we can come up with some ground rules and make it work.
If I remember correctly that is what members where trying to do by asking for examples of "personal attacks" which you have vehemently refused to do.
Maybe a list of topics that will not be allowed?
Maybe you should just give a list of things that the ones who claim (IMHO imaginary attacks) so that they can be catered to and properly entertained?

Just a suggestion.