I am so sorry to hear about al your losses. I was reading this post and it drove me to tears, specialy since I still have both my parents (74 and 78)and I cherish the time I have with them and dread the moment that time will be gone.If you are starting the contest and need some prizes, count me in!!! I will gladly donate to this!! This contest would be especialy suited for the december month, giving each and everyone the opportunity to deal with the missing that is extra hard during that time of year.I wish you all all the best and my heat goes out to you!!!