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Subject: negative messages hurt..

Primal opened this issue on Jun 16, 2004 ยท 37 posts


Kendra posted Fri, 18 June 2004 at 1:04 PM

"no one listens much after the first 10 or 15 people just tried to be as nasty as they could...any learning experience goes right down the toilet....
lasly If I came to your pictures and wrote "Yeah, right" or "thanks for nothing"
then would you be so willing to accept them as being other than what they are....just because they are here and are nasty doesn't mean they have the RIGHT to be.....or that you should HAVE to accept it....things can always change and be made better but not as long as people defend this type of abuse..."

You haven't been listening either. There is a difference between a "you suck" comment and constructive criticism. Constructive criticism such as 'this would look better with this type of lighting'... etc. And everyone here has said the nasty comments are not right. If you can't handle even a constructive and helpful comment then you need to turn off comments because it's not very fair of you to go off on someone and label them a troll simply because you can't handle being told something could be improved upon.

And if you're truely getting the nasty comments then deal with it with the mods and don't lump anyone who doesn't tell you how wonderfull you are in with the trolls.

...... Kendra