"Yes.....xo's OK with it. So long as you basically agree with him. At least, that's the way that he's been acting lately." Wrong again. I'm very cool with disagreement and frequently enjoy it as an exercise in critical thinking and debate. You should know that by now. The difference between your post and Calzagal's is that she stated her views while asking questions, you simply made false assertions. I don't "agree" with everything Calzgal said. I disagree strongly with many of the things said by the people I hobnob with at 3D Arena (which I encourage you to visit, especially the "Downtown Bar" forum) but we get along very, very well in spite of that. Everyone is entitled to their beliefs about sexuality, morality, etc. It's ugly false assertions I dislike and sometimes speak up about.