We have four, three girls and one boy. Unfortunately the youngest has what is called de Grouchy syndrome, which means she is severely disabled. Its just one of those chromosomal deletions that happen now and then, pure chance but life changing for the parents. Shes eight now, and although I shouldnt say it, perhaps our favourite, simply because of her circumstances, although the other three are wonderful kids. Shes our baby.
What has emerged from this is the realisation that our daughter is a remarkable woman, coping with things that would have sent me barmy, and I have nothing but pride in her and my son in law.