There have always been people who think they are better than all the others. If you react to that, it becomes your problem. If you don't, it is theirs. The more you are susceptible to other's opinions, the less your individuality is developed. Ever though of all those great artists from the past that suffered for their vision but were spit-out by society? Just do what you feel is ok for you, and ignore the rest. be happy you have many friends here at this and other communities. Many real artists live completely isolated, even today.

I have tried prudent planning long enough. From now I'll be mad. (Rumi)