I wasn't talking about Arend at all, Eveline. I didn't say a word about him. In fact, I didn't even know until today that he was the person who supposedly did this. What I was commenting on was you scolding people who had the right to express an opinion. A few people here were bullied by someone, and harassed. I don't like it when people are told they can't express themselves, or that they have no right to feel a certain way. You want to stick up for your friend? Fine. But don't censor people, invalidate them or belittle their feelings. Their feelings are very real to them.