Well the only way around the "out of memory" is to make sure everything is in place. Correct Reference Pro can check all references, even geometry ones. Sometimes it's merely a quiestion of uppercase/lowercase in a filename and Poser can't find it.

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You just can't put the words "Poserites" and "happy" in the same sentence - didn't you know that? LaurieA
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