Having just read through this little lot, I'd like to add my 2p's worth and send a message to the person (whoever you are) who bought this matter to the attention of the mods/Admins 'Well, you must be feeling pretty pleased with yuorself right now, not only have you angered and dissrupted the community, you've also caused a great deal of emotional distress to some really wonderful KIND people, hell, I was even moved to tears when I read Tracey's (mutedbanshee) message. Whilst we can all re-post and re-comment if neccesary, the emotional damage is going to take a lot longer to heal, believe you me, and all for what???? Congratulations buddy on a job well done'