"So a word was used you didn't agree with... so what, move on, get over it and grow up. " whoops. Missed the point, read again. I could care less about the word, and the word is ancillary. The point is they were rude, and they put into place a bad policy that has consequences greater than they care for.

thou and I, my friend, can, in the most flunkey world, make, each of us, one non-flunkey, one hero, if we like: that will be two heroes to begin with. (Carlyle)