Thanks Misha for what you said. Yes, what you're saying makes sense. I appreciate your offer to help but i spoke my mind to that person and said how i felt...and i blew off steam here. i'm fine now and cooled off. yes, u r right about taking the bad with the good. i welcome critiques. I do NOT mind when someone tells me what they think might make it better...did i consider this or that...or maybe tell me i might try this or that. I welcome ALL that. i think that is good. but not everyone sees "critique" in the same way. Thanks! sheila