ya know, P, there are days when I just, well, I wanna cry. And I think that's because I just can't get up and slap people around. Damn holidays tapped me. You know damn well I'm dyin to correct, what, 42 horrific errors in the statments above. And this isn't the only thread of late dealing with this same issue. But I just don't have the mental energy today to write the eight or nine pages that are gonna be needed, lol. (Ok, yeah, with me writing them it's 20 or 21, but still...) and Philywebrider -- no, what you're thinking of is the snarky sigh. It's a special form of verbal scythery...

thou and I, my friend, can, in the most flunkey world, make, each of us, one non-flunkey, one hero, if we like: that will be two heroes to begin with. (Carlyle)