I agree -- and infer such in my previous post and state such elsewhere. However, as you well know, this is renderosity. And, indeed, with the exception of several of the current forum moderators and coordinators (all of whom work for no pay and part time), notably those within this forum, courtesy, delicacy of action, and sensitivity towards their patrons is rather lacking. I did say very publically some time ago that the owners and admins of the site needed to seriously get some sensitivity training. And, as I recall, I was called politically correct and somewhat, err, what was the word? oh yeah -- bitchy. lol The current administration for this site does not "sell" the site on the manner in which it is run. They have a strong tendency to use the number of vistors, the number of merchants, the volume of sales, number of posts and pictures, and such as sales points. I mean, come on -- would you sell something on it's weak points? hee hee

thou and I, my friend, can, in the most flunkey world, make, each of us, one non-flunkey, one hero, if we like: that will be two heroes to begin with. (Carlyle)