I totally agree. At least give us the option of whether or not we want to "play". We are not 5 year olds who need constant approval. We are adults. A sad situation that some of us don't realize it. I try to be constructive, if I offer critique, but frankly, I am scared to death to say anything anymore. War breaks out! You have to deal with that person and all of their friends, as though it is a persona attack! I tried what you said, and it is funny. You are absolutely RIGHT!