avalonfaayre opened this issue on Dec 07, 2004 ยท 20 posts
kymarto posted Fri, 10 December 2004 at 2:19 AM
Do what I do--ignore it. There is always going to be this grading and judging with us, it is deeply embedded in our society. Get rid of the Hot 20 and the same probelm with appear somewhere else in your life. You have the choice--just opt out. Toby