LOLI just had to laugh, yes your right, and who knows, maybe someday, yes, lets add a couple Ks to our lifespan. Sorry that hubby wasnt there to share your special day but these things sometimes happen. Sometimes we have to make up for lost time as in when we are stricken with unemployment for an extended period of time and all of a sudden we get a source of income and we must take advantage, for who knows how long that would last? Maybe tomorrow you guys would go out for a special diner. Cats are good! One of my most favorite of animals. They dont know about birthdays but what the heck, they get to eat, its same thing for them.