A good trick I've learned is to read my post from the other person's point of view before posting, to see if my jokes could be understood (often times I find they sould like insults due to bad wording, when the often is often meant), or if they just sound too harsh or critical of a work or person. And I can easily see how somone could have a mental breakdown, especially if it's on a topic about something they feel very strongly about, such as feminism, politics, or religion. I have no idea why feminism is in there. I think I was trying to think of controversial topics. Is feminism controversial? Nvm.