Hmmm, the forum is not abounding in good news these days..... I am very sorry for you, Michelle (and I'm sorry for us :( sniff )! If things get out of balance it's wise to find some time to reflect. sigh RR definitely consumes lots of time and energy. And what's the return on investment? I'm glad to learn to know more people here, but I'm not even one year member here, so look who's talking ;) Well, I hope you'll find out all you want to know. Take care, Michelle! ~ Jan-Carel