In my community..women change names completely when they get married..not just their surname..but also their first name. Done in a pretty interesting way..each syllable has it's own strenght..and according to the husband's first syllable in his first name, and the rest of the planetary info..during the actual wedding ceremony..the priest tells the family the syllable that the bride's names have to begin with. the name is decided on within a stipulated time or at the spot. She uses that name from now on, though her family and friends before she got married calls her by her old name. Reason? She's leaving a life to another new life.. and two: a stupid reason..but they do say sounds affect the aura aroudn you..thus if the husband's name carries greater weight than the bride..the bride's name is changed to match that!