Mike, i never noticed the lady in red either 'cause the image is so captivating! the interaction between the bird and man just grabbed my attention instantly and held me. Modesty, i try to sit on benches now and enjoy the little things. I dunno, i'm not morbid, but i always have this idea in the back of my head that we might NOT have tomorrow. ya know? i know you seem to enjoy life to the fullest too!! puss & kram!