LOL, not laughing at you, laughing with you. I used to do the same thing and had to x,y, and z trans the clothes to get them to go on the body...posing was even more hell. Deecy gave the right info, the double check mark, and then once the clothes come up, go to figure, and selecte conform to, you'll get a drop down...Vicky should read as figure one, so select figure one....and then bam! Your set.