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The highlights can be "blown out" my going to "levels" and sampling the highlight with the white eyedropper from a mid range area of face. "Duotone" in modes for blue look and back to RGB for spot coloring the lips. You might be able to get the blue look by desaturating, doing color balance to blue, then painting in the lips with a red brush set to "color". In Photoshop under distort for some reason if I recall is a defuse glow filter. Also you could make a new layer, median blur it, and try settings for the layer like "lighten" or "overlay". Meloncholyatron would work but you have to "spin dials". The xero sets of free filters has everything you could want... amazing, best filters available anywhere! This all may be criptic but my hands are bad today so it is hard to type (disability).