You're not doing anything wrong, and your camera is not backwards. Large opening = small number.... example f/2.8 You open up the aperture, dof becomes shallower less area is in focus or clear. Small opening = larger number.... example f/16 You close down the aperture, dof becomes greater, more area and background is in focus or clear.

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