I will tell you what the problem is and what is sadly being taken away here. There are times when this forum consists of "I'm having a texture problem..."Well did you,,," That worked. Thanks. And sure, this is a place that should happen, some folks like quick and decisive, that's fine. There are also times this forum is about "I'm having a texture problem in the midst of already having a bad hair day and my kids are driving me bonkers and my toilet just overflowed and I broke another bloody nail on this keyboard trying to work in poser and type here and..."Well, did you,,,are you,,,hey, I'm having one of those days too, and here's some advice for...and I saw some awsome shoes for sale at..bla, bla, bla... That last once is what is being frowned upon and I don't understand why? Getting to know the real side of folks and each other can actually be beneficial in aquiring clientel and devoted customers as well as members; if people can be allowed to mingle at ease with comfort the rewards might well be the greatest 'comeback'... Has this all been forgotten?