Rebekah I am sorry to hear about your Grandma and understand the worry about your Dad. Hospice has some very good programs, for free if you need, that help with grief counciling, open to everyone. They helped me (still helping) when my husband's Mom and my husband both died in the same year. Don't hesitate to call them if you or Dad need to talk or need advise about something. :-) Ok now you can blame me on derailing your thread. ;-) When your ready to put up, will be there, no hurry, life matters always come first. :-)