bonni, One point. There's apparently NO followup, so if someone's ISP uses a spamtrap and the mail ends up in there, the person will NOT be notified... The member to which you are referring received an email request from us, via her spamtrap, to whitelist the domain. And just to clear it up once and for all, that email came from renderosity.com... NOT from a "personal email address" as was claimed. We do, however, now send both IM and email in a majority of cases. Karen

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