"The Forbidden Forum?" "But if you don't, you are a pedophile or monster or dangerous or or or or or...." No, it's not that. It's because this place is trying to attain credibility and keep it and feels the only way to achieve this is to be and remain professional and a forum with catfights and pitbulls fighting is just not going to display any prominent attractions. Unfortunatly us members are just as much a reason for no OT forum here; you only have to look into some of this very thread to find examples as to 'why'... The problem is I don't understand why the professional bit has to begin at the expense of the members losing a part of what makes them grow and achieve a standard of togetherness and belonging and lighthearted fun here among themseleves and other things they may value, instead of other slap in the face setbacks pointed out again and again that truly do contradict a lot of professional value..