"I would tend to agree. (Ack, there I go, agreeing with Xenophonz again, what's this world coming to?!)" An end I'm afraid because I believe after searching far and wide, Bonnie, I think you and I have finally truly found God!! God has been brought to us on a new level, sending us passages of wisdom and incredible knowledge, and you and I Bonnie, almost let this get past us?!! I finally SEE, I finally UNDERSTAND for the "the XENOPHONZ" God has spoken and re-awakened my faith and from now on wherever and whenever "the XENOPHONZ" speaks I will 'bow', my ears will wiggle and my lizard hairpin will dance, thank goodness I got myself a better fitting bra size or I'd hate to think how they'd fall out too, from laughing, lol!! Now I know why those BIG GIANT divine letters to the NAME! Now I understand the power of "the XENOPHONZ" and why the membership always increases tenfold whenever he does speak here, his following is massive and great. "And I wonder why it's so important to the Powers That Be that those few of us who DO hang around in the forums have to be all nicenice happyhappy non-political non-controversial all the time. If only a handful of people are visiting and participating, who cares if an even smaller handful want to argue with each other?" Perhaps it is because "the XENOPHONZ" is among us and says so?? Okay.. Really Bonnie, this place has attracted a LOT of attention in many venues far and wide, from Universities, Colleges, Varieties of Professional Businesses and Institutions alike, they have a Magazine that is sold in REAL live stores, they have a movie, and reachout out in so many ways, the Pink Pony fiasco alone put this lace on a huge scale map online, and being as OLD and as BIG and as BLOATED as this place is, it has in itself became the God of Forums in its' particular genre. The forum hand know this, and wish to take full advantage of this, and do so quite well through more marketing and even more ads, (some ads very, VERY questionable of late I might add, I still just can't believe what I see advertised in some banners here that makes the TOS here a pathetic joke not to be taken seriously and DOES make this site look quite PORNO-ISH); again, unfortunatly we, us members, have to look all pretty and dollied up and wear our best party suits and dresses for any occasion more and more, just in case, sowhen some big folks pass through here and wanna see what's happening or what is going on and whether this place is worth some value or investment or similar the forum hand can be at peace knowing nothing horrible is gonna turn someone off and away. Meanwhile, I don't think they are really paying attention to those banner ads and what is being slapped up there?? Okay, here's hoping "the XENOPHONZ" God is in a good mood, and doesn't strike me down for such an overly long posting, don't wish to dance upon "the XENOPHONZ's" parade. LOL!! Sure glad that at least some newer members do have a sense of humor which I know the XENOPHONZ" has, or I sure wouldn't be posting this or joking with XENO this way; that is something I am giggled to see, with a fluttery blink and a happy smile.. Spinner, your last post here above is well spoken. I wish people and the forum hand here would just try and listen to you and try to understand what you are saying; and that is not meant as funny or joking in any way! In fact, I couldn't be more serious. Please, listen to spinner?? She really makes sense here.