Webmaster, I totally agree with you. Being abused IS NOT an excuse to abuse of necglect your own children. And I know many adults that were abused as kids, and never did anything with their own. But since each of us has a unique make up, this abuse effects us all in different ways. And some victims are more damaged from the abuse than others. I'm not defending those sort of people in any way...just making a statement on the terrible situation.