Jason, Hearty congratulations on the birth of your son! My thoughts go out to you all -- very positive thoughts borne on a wave of bright white light to help you see your way. One of my children had a very difficult birth and first few weeks and this was 3 decades ago. Every time I look at him and his two children I can't help but think of that time that seemed so dreadful and scary then; but can never forget how happy and thankful we were and are as time went by and he grew well and up! I hope Zane gets better very soon and starts growing up to be the kind of fine and caring man his daddy obviously is. Larry F