Chances are, if it's seemingly stuck at "adding objects" it IS stuck and will never get on to the actual rendering. Some hair did that in Poser 5 (a few of Neftis' otherwise great hairdos for instance) if it's "adding objects" for more than ... an hour... I'd cancel it. Personally I wouldn't even wait that long, but that's depending on howlong rendertimes you usually have. Back when I still had only 512 mb ram, I too did the "go to bed" thing. with 1 gb, it's way better, now I only surf Rosity for a while.. with the loading time here you get used to waiting ;o)

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You just can't put the words "Poserites" and "happy" in the same sentence - didn't you know that? LaurieA
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