I have seen one death by fluids aspiration and one by gunshot..the gunshot for a young woman with lots of potential and very bright...I take no pleasure in this. Oh, I have seen others; the ones mentioned just happened to be family at one time in their lives. So terribly sad. Yes, reality stinks sometimes. Then, even then there must be some sense of dignity to afford the "lost ones". No person ever pulled him or herself up by their own bootstaps...someone was there to help.