Interesting read dialyn, very thought provoking and almost too caring in some ways. I say this because I hope you don't fall over your own "care" one day as too many people have. Some things you say hold much value, others are just a thought in the wind and not worth much more than how much a spiders web can hold; and even though the best woven webs may catch millions of little flies again and again, the big juicy bugs either fly through or can see past the snare created by the ugly eight eyed, multy legged arachnid smiling in the shadows with welcoming fangs making room for more desserts. Finally got my hair done and I feel so much more beautiful now and I can go out and spin my own web with a smile and have some fun. Enjoy your day! Smiles!