Just thought I would add that I prefer the colour one too. Soften using the opposite method to Cyn (cause I am awkward) but it works for me. Duplicate layer, and soften bottom layer, erase top layer to soften selected areas,(adjusting brush opacity as needed) and if necessary sharpen top layer. Was shown this method by a graphic designer, used to use Cyns method, both ways do the same job, just depends what you find easiest.

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