Attached Link: Geep's Partial Tutorials Round Up

Magnets and a touch of scaling are yor best bet I think. Magnets actually work pretty well/easily. If you are doing much fooling around with clothes and morphs Wardrobe Wizard is worth while for sure. Conforming I belive means that the clothes attach to and pose with the figure, the conforming figure is not effected by the mesh to which it is conformed... it is simply modeled to fit the figure though more fancy clothes have morphs and ERC to conform to some of the figure's morphs and movement. Check out Geep.