I know :( it will be hard to locate. I could kick myself :( I was cleaning out my wish list the other day and I think I deleted it by mistake. It's something that was relatively new. I found it by clicking a banner ad at the top of the Poser forum.

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi