Part of the problem I think is that it is our own minds that read the words, we are not given the face, a personality or even a voice tone to help know if the comments we read are given in the same way we read them back to ourselves. I would have to admit if I was to try to type a comment in French or German I might only venture a word or two...if it is indeed a young person they may view things in a less complex way...good or ugly become relative terms ....subjective, but relative to an ever widening set of factors....