Gad, if I can use Wings, anyone can..

Not true. 3D modellers are a highly personal thing. It depends on how your brain works. Software that's easy for one person may be impossible for someone else. I cannot make hide nor hair out of Wings. But Anim8or is easy for me.

My advice is to keep looking until you find the right modeller. Like looking for Mr. Right, someone else's "right" may be your "wrong." ;-)