DebbieM, I hope you and your family are safe and healthy, and that despite the trajic loss that you will have peace and joy through the holidays and that the New Year will find you and your family prosperous :)

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi