But there is also the old addage "forgive and forget" :) Regardless of what goes on in my life, I have no time or inclination to harbour grudges for anyone, especially when it comes to things that happen online. This may sound strange, but I consider "online" separate from "real life". Yes, we're all people on the otherside of the computer keyboard, but at the same time unlike "real life", there is an "off button" that can make it all go away :) I hope the 2 of you can work out whatever differences that you have. I didn't read what went down between the two of you. All I saw was this thread and the fact that Tallpockets had deleted all of his posts in all threads. So far as I'm concerned whatever it was was blown way out of proportion and you should both put it behind you and shake hands and make up and move on. A new thread... a new day... a new start.

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi