Alpha...may I offer a small suggestion? In the "Subject" of your posts you should put a brief description of what your post contains. For example if it's a post letting people know of a site with freebies, it's helpful if you say something along the lines of "Site with great freebies" or something similar. You're Goth? I'm what I consider as a 'closet goth'. Born years too late for the style, but like the look of it on others, hehe

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi