Oh I wanna play. Here's my classic that totally works! Don't say anything or try anything. Instead wear at least one thing that's funny or odd, -- like a big ostridge feather in your hair. Men will come out of the woodwork to talk to you and pet the feather. It's an easy ice breaker. You can even flirt by "accidently" brushing people with it and laugh about it oh-so-innocently. ;) bB