for me they are THAT bad.  hence post.   if they don't bother you much, more power to you.  i wasn't trying to speak for anyone else but myself, and neither should you.

and for me it boils down to this: i can force myself to stay and be uncomfortable  or just transfer my time and money to one of the many other poser communities/stores i'm a member of.  i'm giving them a chance to respond rather than just leaving.  i don't think my opinion will mean much, but i really hate it when people complain about how they're being treated to everyone but the person who they need to.  so i've stated exactly what i didn't like where i was told to voice such complaints.   how they deal with this is their business and their decision.