Yipee... I finally got it working.  It was reallying getting me down.  I finally found a errant poser.dta file wandering around in my program files.  Deleted it ,reinstall poser5 ,updated and now I'm back  on track.  Guess I won't have to throw it out the window this time...  Thanks everyone for your help and support.  I couldn't of  done it with out ya.