Ilona, my dear.. You are one of the few lucky ones that still holds traditional beliefs and values. That is VERY admirable indeed! In my own personal opinion, not only have "girls gone wild" but the "world" now has as well. The whole institution of marriage has declared official bankruptcy (and others can disagree with me on this one??!!) I have treated many broken marriages in the past with a "different" kind of therapy, and err... i mean, i'm not a frivolous little skank... lol ;) I meant in terms of counselling, that is..... and have come to realize that in this day and age, most of societal values and morals goes by the belief "lets go with the flow". We no longer meet people who prosper and grow in marriages. Now divorce is much too easy to obtain, and hence, its become a "natural solution". Who cares about working through problems, that was " sooo yesterday".... Mind you, for those of us who have tried to repair our marriages, with no success.... I will still stick by the saying: It is better to die on your feet, than to live on your knees ( no pun intended :) ) :) Hugs to all, tofi

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