Tofi: Sure I do understand too if a marriage is a "disaster" then it is better to split up. But these days couples can't talk anymore. Or see the grass greener on the other side. Sure I had hard times too, but we won all the time, because I know what you left, can be more worse in return....not for each couple....but most of the time it works like that way....and you will regret what you left....I am happy the way I live now, I have my own space, can do things I like without any problems.....my hubby is always there for me when I am sick, he can cook, clean my house.....etc etc...but even when he is a good man, I need my own space......lol...he is a hard worker makes a lot overtime, but so do I......house wife and a job together is a hard time too....haha

"Even when you think the grass is greener on the other side, once a year all will be brown again and the fresh smell disappears!!!!"

Ilona

Ilona Krijgsman: My Tree Of Life
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