Thanks. Not really an option though. We don't think she's going to recover, so it's more a matter of hanging in and waiting til the end, and making sure she's comfortable. Not fishing for sympathy. It's one of those things everyone is going to go through sooner or later. I was just explaining to Peter why I dropped out of my usual [and some of our mutual] haunts so abruptly and so thoroughly.

"I am a good person now and it feels... well, pretty much the same as I felt before (except that the headaches have gone away now that I'm not wearing control top pantyhose on my head anymore)"

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